[DevilsDuck]

So just to back it up what I said

You are allowed to say you don’t like someone, but if someone says they don’t like you then you act like a spoilt little kid

[Vivienne]

Bye for another day!!

[DevilsDuck]

Have as good weekend Viv

[MK Chris]

Yes, probably if she were male, I would act differently. Well spotted.

Do you not think that's wrong though? To treat people differently based on their gender?

I find she unnecessarily picks on stuff some days, and comes across in a very forceful manner.

I find she speaks her mind, which is good when you want to know where you stand with people.

she forwards PM's, and that's a no-no for me.

She has never forwarded a PM to me, who has she forwarded them to? Whenever I have told her anything that I expressly didn't wish divulged to anyone else, I asked her not to say anything and she hasn't.

[rustybike]

I dont like Viv anymore

I used to like Viv, but I have to the conclusion she is very vindictive and doesnt seem to understand the reason people get annoyed with her is she thinks she should have a rule for her and another for everyone else

Me neither. I used to. I used to think she was just happy little lady, happy in her ways of creating threads and tra la la.

But now I just think she's a spoilt and nasty woman who seems to think she can do what the hell she likes!

I find she unnecessarily picks on stuff some days.

So because YOU think that something is unecessary, it automatically make's it unecessary? I think most of the threads you make are unecessary, but I don't dislike you because of them.
Perosnally, I think Yuds speaks her mind - which is good. I hate it when people don't get straight to the point.

... and comes across in a very forceful manner.

I think if you want to get your message across (like the way you remind us of your hatred of S4) you have to be forceful sometimes, Jeez, if everyone was all buttercups and daisies about everything you'd never get anywhere... or you'd be in UM.

Plus she forwards PM's, and that's a no-no for me.

Eh? Do you mean forwarding to Chris? Or other users? I wouldn't ever imagine Yuds to do that sort of thing.

[catherine]

Yudster is a very special person with a massive brain and a top contributer, by that i mean a sensible contributer not shite, pointless posts and threads. I don't actually think she will give a crap about what Viv says about her not currently posting, I don't actually think anybody gives a crap about what Viv says, ever.

[foot-loose]

Yudster is a very special person with a massive brain and a top contributer, by that i mean a sensible contributer not shite, pointless posts and threads. I don't actually think she will give a crap about what Viv says about her not currently posting, I don't actually think anybody gives a crap about what Viv says, ever.

I totally agree with that. And me and Yuds often disagree on subjects, but without her, this place would be worse off.

[rustybike]

Yudster is a very special person with a massive brain and a top contributer, by that i mean a sensible contributer not shite, pointless posts and threads. I don't actually think she will give a crap about what Viv says about her not currently posting, I don't actually think anybody gives a crap about what Viv says, ever.

Ditto.

I like the debates we have here. Especially ones that include some wit and intellence - it's always an interesting read.
Even when I've been on the receiving end of a debate with Yuds, I've never once disliked her for disagreeing or arguing with me - at the end of the day it's a mis match of opinions; and what makes it nicer is the fact that Yuds still talks to me too... Even though I've just disagreed with her or just pissed her off. Where as if I disagreed or argued with Viv, she'll probably hate me forever! To be honest though, she probably already does because I've told her her threads are shit.

[Boboff]

Yuds is Lush.

I think she is "off getting a life" I would assume that means spending time doing more constructive things than having petty arguments with petty people about petty things. Oh and so I am not misunderstood, I only mean Viv.

I so agree with Rusty and Ducky Wucky on the Viv thing, your comments are spot on.

[Zoot]

Viv, you have a very nasty, bitchy streak, but the real scary thing is you are totally oblivious to it! You can say something to someone as a passing comment that is really underhanded and cruel, then spend the next 20 posts wondering why that post has caused such a fuss. But as soon as you get a comment about you then out come to PMs and you go complain to Chris. How many times have you been banned now? Doesn't that make you stop and think 'Oh hang on, what could I possibly be doing to cause this kind of reaction?'

Open your eyes, for god's sake Viv

[foot-loose]

... and won't someone think of the children!!!!!

[Vivienne]

Viv, you have a very nasty, bitchy

I can be quite nasty and bitchy, but then, so can everyone else (!!). I never get into arguments with Tial, or Timp, or Fowler (there's reasons for that)...!

Besides, you know you secretly love to go wild when I say something (!!).

[foot-loose]

I never get into arguments with Tial, or Timp, or Fowler (there's reasons for that)...!

They can't be bothered to / don't disagree with you?

[Vivienne]

** viv secretly goes into meltdown and shoots off for the evening **

[foot-loose]

** viv ... shoots off for the evening **

Kinky!

[Vivienne]

ha ha!! you just stick to looking after your new, adorable pooch.

[S4B]

Wow I missed all the fun!

[timp]

I never get into arguments with Tial, or Timp, or Fowler (there's reasons for that)...!

They can't be bothered to / don't disagree with you?

I genuinely don't have a problem with Viv, that is why. I don't agree with her on 100% of things but then who does? I believe also on occasion I have contradicted her, as is the nature of the board.
But yes, can we stop the ganging up on Viv. If you don't like what she posts ignore it.

[TIAL]

They can't be bothered to / don't disagree with you?

A bit of both really - sometimes I don't agree with what Viv says but I'd be hard pushed to find anyone I agree with completely. A balanced on-line debate is good but when it becomes an argument....



I like Viv, but then I like the people who seem to argue against her. And no I don't belong in UM, they don't even seem to have any decent discussions so I'll stick to here.

[catherine]

I'm so tired, I can't believe I am awake when i went to sleep at 4am.

[TIAL]

I missed the postman this morning, so have to drive to the depot. How come post only comes early when your still asleep?

[MK Chris]

Because you're a lazy * student?

[TIAL]

And I love it!

[catherine]

My postman is lazy, he doesn't come till 11.

[foot-loose]

But yes, can we stop the ganging up on Viv. If you don't like what she posts ignore it.

99% of the time I do - most of her threads, I don't bother with until they go off topic.

That said, she can be a very difficult person to ignore when she gets going. I don't think people are ganging up on her - I think people are stating an opinion. Only a few folk continually say the same things to her.