nicola_red wrote:foot-loose wrote:Yudster wrote:I'm sure you're right, I've lost my way in this one.
The girls I know sodding love being perved on. Sluts.
This is the thing - sometimes they do. But it's all about feeling in control of the situation. If you deliberately go out dressed in a short skirt and/or low cut top, or send out saucy photos of yourself (heaven forfend), then you're in control of what attention you're receiving and when. But if someone takes a covert photo of you and posts it on a website without your knowledge, you have no control over it, and that can be scary.
True. But only if you know about it.