New Life

[bmstinton93]

Exactly. I initially asked everyone to comment and I'm not going back on that now.

[Sidders]

Good. I've always believed that if you put yourself out there on the internet, whether it's your situation, opinions, beliefs, photos or anything else, you gotta be prepared for whatever comes back atcha. I've been called fat and ugly more than once - never on here, thankfully!

Shut it fattie

[Nicola_Red]

Good. I've always believed that if you put yourself out there on the internet, whether it's your situation, opinions, beliefs, photos or anything else, you gotta be prepared for whatever comes back atcha. I've been called fat and ugly more than once - never on here, thankfully!

Shut it fattie

You have to know what I look like to pull that off with any conviction

[dimtimjim]

You have to know what I look like to pull that off with any conviction

We established this: Uma Thurman.

[a-moron]

Lots of profanity followed

Why do you need to be so crude? Other than that, I think you have got it spot on. Some of the replies in this thread, by people who should know better, are very disapointing.

Sorry sir, won't happen again sir.

Funny thing is I do actually converse and text with friends in a similar manner. Point duly noted that I was a bit over the top with the rudies.

He was pissed when the said post was typed...

No need for that in there, makes the sentence clunky as *.

[foot-loose]

I've not read the whole topic, Ben, I hope things are working out ok. x

[Boboff]

Ben as long as you all are happy, who gives a monkeys?

I hope that you all are.

Plus if you're nice with the baby you are more likely to have Oral Sex: FACT

[chrysostom]

if you're nice with the baby you are more likely to have Oral Sex

[dimtimjim]

Plus if you're nice with the baby you are more likely to have Oral Sex: FACT

[bmstinton93]

Ben as long as you all are happy, who gives a monkeys?

I hope that you all are.

Plus if you're nice with the baby you are more likely to have Oral Sex: FACT

Best let Katie know that one

[Boboff]

You can't beat a Sympathy Suck!

[bmstinton93]

A year on and everything is going amazingly. Unfortunately I still haven't been able to tell my parents which I feel awful about but me and Katie speak about it regularly. Matthew is like 7 months old now and he's really doing great and Katie is impressed with the bond I apparently have with him, even though as I see it I'm not massively involved with him. Ill pick him up and play with him occasionally but that's about it. This whole situation is a lot easier than I ever thought it would be. Dad has only ever met the baby once for 10 minutes and then buggered off again so we kinda both hope he's gone for good how. And Katie is now picking her life back up doing 3 days at college and working part time at Vue cinemas. All is really good!

[The Deadly]

I can't tell you how silly it is that you haven't told your parents but its your call.
Good luck to you.

[bmstinton93]

Ah trust me I don't disagree in the slightest with you there for once...

[Yudster]

I think I may have sad this to you earlier Ben, but I thought it was more important for you to tell your parents before Matthew was born than I do now. It was then that you might have needed their advice, support - whatever. Now, well, all that is happening is that you are going out with a girl who has a child that isn't yours. Not really an unusual situation these days. I'm glad you're working on telling them, but having passed the stage where I would have said that was more urgent, I'd say you ought to be able to relax about it a bit now.

[dimtimjim]

Ben, ben, ben....

[Boboff]

OK quick question, Do Bens Parents think they are grandparents, when they are not?

[dimtimjim]

No, they know nothing about it I believe. Although, having met Ben, i'd go with 'deny all knowledge' too...

[Boboff]

oh, thank you for clarifying.

[bmstinton93]

No, they know nothing about it I believe. Although, having met Ben, i'd go with 'deny all knowledge' too...

Bitch!

[chrysostom]

Each to their own.

[R94N]

Well, as long as everything is ticking along.

[bmstinton93]

I'm sure you'll all be pleased to know that the parents now know.

[a-moron]

[charlalottie]

And?