bmstinton93 wrote:Yudster wrote:You're not necessarily wrong Ben. But if you want to stay with your girlfriend but don't want a child, you're in for a very tough time. But then you seem to know that. Enjoy your visit to them - I hope you end up in love with both of them. And for crying out loud tell your folks.
I know its gonna be tough and I never said I didn't want a child but its just tough when its not yours and your going through uni. I've said all along that in a few years time I'll be happy to have more involvement and hopefully the fact that I've been here from the start of his life should help.
All the best. Stranger situations have worked and you have your eyes open. TELL YOUR FOLKS!